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Lang Stt
map-marker Stamford, Connecticut

Refund and cancel service

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This is my third attempt from day one after an hour of joining. I realize this is not the site for me.

Ive since tried to cancel my account and get a full refund. This is proven to be almost impossible. The site cancellation procedure I believe is purposely difficult.

It should be a matter of ease to cancel your account just as easy. It was to create one.

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User's recommendation: I really cannot make any recommendations because you only find out how the site is after joining

Veronica D Hjh

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Cancel membership. A refund for $127.63

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eHarmony - Cancel membership. A refund for $127.63

I cancelled my membership approximately 8 months ago, and today I was charged 127.63 on my credit card. I want a refund. Please give me a refund today.

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Loss:
$128
Pros:
  • It does work
Cons:
  • Did not get the right person according with your comparables

Preferred solution: Full refund

User's recommendation: Never

Deedee L Aga

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| map-marker Seattle, Washington

I can’t get into my account- I used to get in with facebook

eHarmony - I can’t get into my account- I used to get in with facebook

I used to get into my account with Facebook, so I don't have a password. I tried other options, and nothing worked.

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User's recommendation: Get a password

Chidinma Npq

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| map-marker North Bergen, New Jersey

Can't access

eHarmony - Can't access

Can't access can't change password says not allowed. I put a copy of message on here refund me if you can't get me in please

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User's recommendation: Able to get help

Resolved
John E P

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Verified Reviewer

Resolved: Close account

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Phone rang then hung up. I didn't talk to anyone.

I called because I wanted to close my account. Reasons: I get emails stating I have messages and likes. I go to the website, and nothing. I email customer service, and they tell me it's my email address.

It's not. Then they tell me it's my phone carrier.

It's not. Everything else works except eHarmony.

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Loss:
$40
Cons:
  • Do not get likes or messages

Preferred solution: Full refund

User's recommendation: Don't join

Edward Z Jpg

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Very upset. Waste of time. Waste of money.

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I used eHarmony for just a couple of days before realizing it wasn’t for me. The second person I connected with tried to scam me — she got my number and immediately asked me for money.

While I don’t blame eHarmony for that, what happened next is what really bothered me.

Weeks after I stopped using the platform, I was hit with over $150 charge. I tried reaching out to customer service, but it’s nearly impossible to get in touch with a real person. To this day, I still haven’t gotten clear answers, and I have no idea if they’ll keep charging me.

I later learned I was locked into a year-long subscription at over $150 per month — something I never knowingly agreed to. That’s over $1,800 for a service I barely used for 48 hours.

If eHarmony actually looked at my account usage, they’d see I barely logged in.

This is clearly a scam — unclear terms, predatory billing, and no customer support. Avoid at all costs.

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Loss:
$304
Cons:
  • Everything about this website is a con

Preferred solution: Full refund

User's recommendation: Meet someone anywhere else

Jerry J Qik

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| map-marker Estacada, Oregon

Why am I getting charged double each month?

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I'm angry. I'm getting charged double each month.

I would appreciate it if you would resolve this issue or cancel my account without any further obligation to me.

I'm angry. You are too hard to get a hold of.

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Serria Ebh

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| map-marker Jacksonville, Florida

Cancel subscription

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This is most ridiculous website that I ever see trying to call my subscription for month even I press mistakenly. I cannot talk with anyone they still charging me.

This is really something I cannot believe and you want me to rates you? It will be under zero still not resolve my problem.

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Nancy P Nhf

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Verified Reviewer

Refund ,and cancel

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Talk to me and refund my money. I have been trying to cancel for three months.

I haven't used this service in that time, and at $50.00 a month, I would like my money to be put back in my account, please. I would very much appreciate it.

I can't ever get to actually talk to a live person or anyone for that fact, so I would appreciate a refund and to cancel my account for eHarmony. Thank you.

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Loss:
$150

Preferred solution: Full refund

Joelynn Vlt

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| map-marker Nokomis, Florida

Can't use website

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I unlocked people to see there pictures and was told the very first day of using the site my matches were used up so I'm locked out from responding or texting or seeing there messages until May 13th that's highway robbery 420 dollars and I can't use the site to text!!!

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Anglea Wgv

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| map-marker Billings, Montana

No customer support.

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Terrible support. Tricked into a huge monthly payment of over 56.00 with few people nearby.

I tried to stop payment but response was we cant do that. They could if they chose to do so.

A rip off. I can only hope this subscription is not renewed in any way.

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Franco B Nos

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| map-marker Melbourne, Victoria

Worst dating site. Money hungry

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Give customers what they pay for.

Eg people within your area and actually give them anything!!!

Instead of debt collectors when they cancel their subscription...

Worst dating site. Money hungry

Thank you.

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123556****

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Millie H Exq

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Verified Reviewer

Cancel Subscription

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Updated by user Mar 19, 2025

They deceived me. I understand that I'm not the only one.You can't reach them via telephone, only email. And they send a different response with each email.

Original review Mar 17, 2025
E Harmony misrepresents the cost of the service. I thought I had signed up for a monthly subscription only to be charged an annual fee.

Although my bank texted me to confirm the charge, I thought I had reconciled the issue with an email confirming I would be charged monthly and the amount credited. I noticed that my subscription was still for a year and emailed them again. This time I was told I had a 2-year subscription. I threatened them with my bank and the BBB.

What's shocking is that they somehow retrieved their emails to me.

I checked trash, sent, and junk, and those emails are nowhere to be found. What a slimy company.
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Loss:
$95
Cons:
  • Slimy business

Preferred solution: Apology

User's recommendation: Steer clear of EHarmoblny

Brenda T Sfu

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Verified Reviewer

Cancel subscription. I’m happy with my match

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I don't want to date more at this time. I matched with someone I want to date exclusively. Good experience for both of us.

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Loss:
$1
Pros:
  • Happy
Cons:
  • Hard to speak to tepresentative

Preferred solution: No more fees for now and cancel my subscription

User's recommendation: Definitely

Darwin L Rgi

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Verified Reviewer

To complain

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You tell me I can cancel any time, you make it damn imposible to complain about issues with your site!

As far as I am concerned, EHarmony, Facebook, and all the others are running the biggest {{Redacted}} rings in the world with no services rendered! And then you send ME to colections!

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Preferred solution: Full refund