eHarmony
eHarmony Overview
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eHarmony has a 1.3 star rating from 2,285 reviews, 3% would recommend, and reviews show most consumers are dissatisfied with service and refund outcomes.
Key Takeaways for Future Customers
- Read terms on auto-renew and membership before subscribing.
- Expect limited phone support; many eHarmony reviews flag slow or no response.
- Document billing and refund requests for disputes.
Negative Feedback / Risk Areas
- Frequent customer complaints about billing, unsolicited renewals, and refund refusals.
- Poor or nonexistent customer service and unreachable phone numbers.
- Scam reports and fake profiles leading to safety concerns.
Positive Feedback
Some users find the matching algorithm and membership model useful for long-term compatibility.
The generated data is based on reviews and questionnaires provided by PissedConsumer.com users.
eHarmony has a 1.3 star rating from 2,285 reviews, 3% would recommend, and reviews show most consumers are dissatisfied with service and refund outcomes.
Key Takeaways for Future Customers
- Read terms on auto-renew and membership before subscribing.
- Expect limited phone support; many eHarmony reviews flag slow or no response.
- Document billing and refund requests for disputes.
Negative Feedback / Risk Areas
- Frequent customer complaints about billing, unsolicited renewals, and refund refusals.
- Poor or nonexistent customer service and unreachable phone numbers.
- Scam reports and fake profiles leading to safety concerns.
Positive Feedback
Some users find the matching algorithm and membership model useful for long-term compatibility.
Media from reviews





eHarmony Collective Complaints
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Verified Reviewer |I would like to cancel my subscripccion
i would like to cancel my subscripccion for the next payment ,i dont need the aplicaccions any more .
Preferred solution: i would like to cancel my subcripption
User's recommendation: its ok with the aplicaccion
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Verified Reviewer |Can’t register, form on loop
- After answering lengthy questions, the final page loops in ZIP Code and height fields.
- I could not submit and am unable to create an account.
I answered the lengthy questions, and then on the final page, it kept taking me in a circle in the ZIP code and height field. I tried everything but I could not submit the final page so I am unable to have an account.
- Cannot register after answering lengthy questions
Preferred solution: Fix your site so customers can sign up
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Verified Reviewer |Membership payments monthly
- I've paid twice; my card on file isn't being kept.
- I had to pay manually again, twice.
- The account worked before; now I can't access it.
I've paid twice and I don't understand why you're not keeping my card on file. That card is supposed to stay on file to avoid payment problems, and yet it's having problems.
I had to pay manually again, twice. The account worked, and today it’s not working again, and I can't get into my account. What is happening?
Why is this happening? I don't understand why you are doing this to me with payments.
Preferred solution: Save my card on file the first time. Why are you blocking my account if I put a card on file and I had to pay again manually AGAIN. IM CONFUSE and I dont understand what is going on ?why are you doing this to me?
User's recommendation: Dont let them double charge you
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Verified Reviewer |Non access to full paid accounts need a live person
- They want a live person; cannot access the account and email not recognized; rating emails go to Norma Cruz, credit card request denied since paid.
Need to speak to a live person, please.
I have never been able to access, and although it states that the email is not recognized, they are constantly sending rating emails to my only email:
Norma Cruz
(702) 896-****
normacruz46@***.com
I've been with Pearl Chat, but you want me to provide a credit card number to help me, which I'm not doing since I'm already out my fully paid amount. Customer service is not a paid service by the customer.
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Verified Reviewer |Billing 561.65 that I did not agree to
- Signed up for eHarmony but did not use the service.
- Was billed $561.65 despite not using the service.
I signed up for eHarmony, never used it. I never saw that I would be billed $561.65.
Are you kidding me right now? Unlike any other dating site, none of them billed this ridiculous amount of money.
I haven't even used their site. Good luck collecting it.
Preferred solution: Full refund
User's recommendation: Make sure you understand in the fine print or wherever it’s at that you obviously don’t see it just be beware buyer beware
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Verified Reviewer |I want to cancel my subscription. There...
- Wants to cancel subscription due to no local matches within 50 miles and alleges a match was a scam artist in Fairfax.
I want to cancel my subscription. There is nobody in my 50 mile radius.
I am in my 70s and incapable of meeting with anyone outside my range. That isnt even doable to be honest. I need someone in my hometown and there was an only one and he is not a fit for me.
The one person that I was interested in even though he was too far said he lived in [GEOGRAPHIC_DATA], Va and he then told me he was on a boat in the [GEOGRAPHIC_DATA] and owned a drilling company. He was a scam artist.
I want to end this subscription. I am afraid of even doing it now, plus you have nobody to offer me. I realize I signed a one year contract, but since you have nobody but a scam artist you need to let me out of this contract.
I even later added [GEOGRAPHIC_DATA] where I have a second home, but there is no way to limit the range in [GEOGRAPHIC_DATA] to try to find someone meeting my criteria. Thank you very much for your understanding.
User's recommendation: I would not recommend this dating site.
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Verified ReviewerI paid I can't use the app still asking for money
Horrible! Paid, no phone in use, too cheap of a company that doesn't even have customer support! Phone number doesn't even work, plus chat is to use another app to talk to girls!
Preferred solution: Deliver product or service ordered
User's recommendation: Don’t pay, don’t use! Cheap company doesn’t even have a customer service department
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Verified ReviewerCustomer service doesn’t have a telephone number! This is most regrettable! Someone could call me that would really be appreciated! My number is [PHONE_NUMBER]! Thank you in advance!
I wanted to speak to someone, and it's just not possible since you don't have a phone number! This is quite disturbing!
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Verified ReviewerI paid still been asked to pay
Very cheap to answer inquiries from customers! No one alive, even the phone number is invalid!
I paid and I can't still see or send anything! Everything a lie, nobody can use anything! I feel you are a scammer.
Preferred solution: Deliver product or service ordered
User's recommendation: Phone is leaking to insurance company! Scam! Your company is good to ask for money and not a direct line?
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Verified ReviewerI need to talk to a supervisor
I need to talk to a supervisor. They put me on this dating site for 6 months when I never requested to even be on this site.
- Non
- I never ordered this
Preferred solution: Full refund
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Verified ReviewerI if i join and decide this is not for me how do i cxl
you didnt answer my question and this is exactly why i dont join. theres no contact number if i decide this is not for me and want to cxl
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Verified Reviewer |Hi , tonight I subscribed for one year!...
My location is still in [GEOGRAPHIC_DATA]! [PERSON_NAME] wrote they changed my country!I’ve read most people in the [GEOGRAPHIC_DATA] [GEOGRAPHIC_DATA] don’t use eharmony!
Difficultly with country options! I feel very very stupid to have paid , before, doing the research!
Years ago in [GEOGRAPHIC_DATA], I met my now deceased husband on eharmony! If I cancel what will be my fee?Sincerely [PERSON_NAME]
Hi, tonight I subscribed for one year! I'm retired in [GEOGRAPHIC_DATA]!
They have no option to choose the country I live in!
Why? Did I throw money away?
Preferred solution: Full refund
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Verified Reviewer |Cancel subscription
Dont pay for love
They refused to cancel my membership.How greedy.The site is awful and all they want is money.They are suppose to represent love and positive relationships and they themselves have none
I want to cancel my membership. Th only way I can contact eharmony is through email.
I sent several emails asking to cancel due to outrageous amount and I am not compatible with the men on the site. Most do not live close to me.
I paid 1 month and not asking for a refund but to cancel my subscription/ membership.
They refused and I owe $60 for the next 5 months.Outrageous.
Just out of courtesy they could cancel.
This is not a good look for them.
I am extremely upset and very disappointed.
User's recommendation: don't do it
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Verified Reviewer |Asking for help
- Accidentally chose a more expensive subscription and informed support.
- Cannot afford the $465 charge; seeking a refund and a cheaper plan.
I made a big mistake. I clicked on the wrong subscription plan. I noticed the error immediately and notified them at once. My checking account is at a minus. I can't afford this. Please return the over $465 to my account and let me choose a less expensive subscription. I'm 84 and on a very limited budget. Thank you for your consideration.
Claire
There was no solution. I spoke to several people and they didn't care. They kept telling me that they couldn't turn it around. At one point, they put the money back in my account and then took the $465 back out again. When joining, I wanted to choose a package. I clicked on one and realized I made a mistake. I immediately contacted them to tell them about it. They didn't care. I begged, actually, with no luck. I'm on a fixed income and that is way too much money. It left my account at a minus.
Please stay away from eHarmony. Their practices are immoral. There are so many dating sites to choose from. Be very careful. You'll be next. Very bad customer service. I did ask them to take this one off and let me choose another plan. I can't believe that anyone can steal money from an elderly woman. I'll never recover from this. This amount could buy me food plus a few other bills. eHarmony are thieves and they don't care who they're stealing from.
PLEASE STAY AWAY FROM THESE THIEVES.
- Are thieves
Preferred solution: Full refund
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Verified Reviewer |I have tried a few dating sites but I.only get women from [GEOGRAPHIC_DATA]..
I have tried a few dating sites but I only get girls from [GEOGRAPHIC_DATA], [GEOGRAPHIC_DATA] or [GEOGRAPHIC_DATA], or Philipines ,which is useless if looking for a long term relationship in [GEOGRAPHIC_DATA]. I there no dating site for girls who live in [GEOGRAPHIC_DATA], and none of your phone numbers work.
[PERSON_NAME] --- [PHONE_NUMBER]
User's recommendation: look for a site wich connects with girls in [GEOGRAPHIC_DATA]
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Verified ReviewerI was scammed and lost money.
- Scammers target dating sites and direct users to Telegram or phone numbers.
- This dating scene is risky due to lies.
Scammers work these sites to find their next victim. Then they lead you off the site to telegram or Google phone.
Stay away altogether. Date the old fashion way. Scammers have taken over these dating sites and made them too risky. The lies are so convincing and they literally have no morals whatsoever.
My life is ruined because of this. Learn from me.
User's recommendation: Stay away from these sites. Find someone the old fashion way.
About
eHarmony is an Internet relationship services provider. The company was founded in 2000 by Dr. Neil Clark Warren. eHarmony is based in Pasadena, California. The web site offers to use its patented Compatibility matching System and find a perfect person to build long-term relationships. With the help of this system hundreds of people of all social positions, ages, ethnicities, and religious believes have found their spouses. eHarmony can be used in the United States, Canada and Australia. The company is recognized and the most popular provider of singles matching services on the Internet.
eHarmony also publishes eHarmony Advice to help those who are already in the relationships.
eHarmony is ranked 134 out of 251 in Dating category
USA, Australia, Canada, Europe, UK
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